Walls are built for a reason

Because it is true. We sometimes need to protect ourselves from something that can and will harm us. I know I need it.

That is the same reason why I am cautious on letting myself “go with the flow”. Seriously, the signs are telling: it is going no where. Honestly, I thought it could be something and I even tried to work some stuff up. I thought it was something, but all it was is a delusion– a delusion that somehow needs to stop as soon as possible.

Funny is that I say I am being cautious but I am still playing a very dangerous game. I dunno. But one thing is for sure: the walls aren’t coming down. Not now.

On Geraldine Roman


Photo Courtesy of Philippine Star. No copyright infringement intended.

True, politics is about compromise: finding the balance between what one’s constituency says and one’s idea and understanding of what is right.
True, Geraldine Roman is a breath of fresh air in the Philippine political arena. But for her to thrive, she has to concede some of the things to her constituency and the establishment. Politics isn’t black and white. Don’t forget that she voted for death penalty. We can take that against her. But also, do not dismiss her and her anti-discrimination advocacy just yet.
I personally believe that Roman is your traditional political scion. She wouldn’t be sitting as a representative had she not been a Roman. The goal of these dynasts is perpetuating itself. While we spit disgust over this, it is somehow understandable that dynasties would want to retain power. But that shouldn’t blind us on the issues we need to discuss.
Stand beside Roman for her anti-discrimination advocacy. Regret, that she voted for death penalty. For, we stand with our ideals. We talk about taking the conversation away from the personality and focus on the issues. This is the time we take a firm stand on this principle.

Je refuse


I am not the one who you would talk to when you have nothing else to talk to. I refuse to be that one. So now, I am walking away.

I am not capable of love, so one says. So let me be brutal: I am not the one for show. If you want to have one, don’t put me on as the starring cast. You have your narrative, I just don’t want to be in it.